Saturday, January 25, 2014

P1-MPP8 - The Advantages of a Turbulent Past

Making Peace With Your Past
Unit 8 – The Advantages of a Turbulent Past

Memory verse: 2 Cor. 1:3-4, NIV: “ Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.”

Affirmations to repeat: “No matter what happens, I trust that God is working for my good.

Day 1: Looking in the Mirror

Q1. Referring to the list of traits of an adult child of an alcoholic, list the traits that describe you. Pg 137

Q2. Write a paragraph expressing your understanding of the ambivalent feelings discussed in this day’s material.

Day 2: Dysfunctional Family Roles

Q3. Referring to the roles that emerge from a dysfunctional family, which one best describes you as a child? Pg 141

Q4. How did your role in the family affect your childhood?

Q5. Do you still play that role in situations today?

Q6. What other roles to you filling in your childhood?

Day 3: Positive Results of a Painful Past, Part 1

Q7. List some of the good things God has done in your life.

Q8. Do you feel that your painful childhood helped you develop a survivor quality? How?

Q9. List the benefits of your survivor mentality or perseverance.

Q10. Share an example of when your survivor mentality helped you in a situation.

Day 4: Positive Results of a Painful Past, Part 2

Q12. Are you driven to succeed? Why?

Q13. Are you willing to let go and let God take control of this area of your life?

Day 5: Back to the Mirror

Q14. What are your going to do with the pain of your past? List positive ways you can face the pain. Pg 152


Q15. What are the major lessons you have learned as you progressed through this unit? (half page)